This is the most sensational question i would say. Can opposite sexes be friendly throughout? Some say they cant and many say they can. But what is the truth?

Childhood days, days of innocence they are. Friendship will be so in those days. But when a guy and a girl enters to their teens, will that friendship remain the same? The answer is a big NO! Naturally, a feeling of love intrudes their friendship. Many friends give importance to this feeling and change themselves into life partners. In one way this may also be good because such partners will have a good understanding about each other.
But in rare cases there are a few . Off course i would never say that love never buds in them but they cut the bud at that stage itself and give importance to their friendship. Once if they cut through or surpass this stage, love cannot easily interfere them thereafter. But they have yet to face many other mental conflicts.
They will sure be best friends by now and would depend on each other so much. But life is a strange interferer. It never allows things to go the same way always. A time comes when one or the other gets a lover or a person who he/she gives more priority to. First stage of separation starts here. Calls go waiting thereafter and each time the other one sees this, there will be a flash of some unknown feeling through their mind. Is it jealousy? But why should i be jealous? He/She is my friend, i should understand him/her. These are the questions that comes along with that feeling. But it sure is one form of jealousy and possessiveness. It is because that you don’t get the necessary stroke or importance you expect from that person and someone else gets it.
OK, if they are even able to surpass that stage, there comes life again. This time it takes the form of schedules. Both become busy on their professions that they don’t even get time to spend for the other. Here comes the feeling of missing and pain. Some, even at this stage turn to lovers thinking that they cant be without each other.
Even if this stage is passed and they still remain as friends, hands off to them first. But life is a dangerous thing sometimes. It again comes in between. Now its in the final form of marriage. Once after marriage, the priority list one have followed till then needs to be completely changed. First priority comes to his/her life partner and sometimes the later one may not understand their friendship. Nothing to do but that friendship almost ends there and memories live inside. even if they understand, still there is more things to consider. This we call becoming serious about life.
So, at last we understand that,
” a guy and girl can be friends forever but they can never be close forever.”

There is yet another criteria to be discussed. Nowadays a boy or girl uses the name of friendship with the motive or feel of love inside. If you really think your love is true, then don’t ever, for at least once, fake it with the name of friendship. Friendship is more divine than love i would say, because love is being close and knowing each other. Friendship is also the same with a lot many restrictions and maintaining those restrictions ‘naturally’ is the most divine task. So the normal scenario,
” Hi,
Can we be friends?
Can we be best friends?
Can we be lovers?”

should be changed. To what? well, i leave it for you to decide.